Thank you for this site. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. This is because they gave up the structure of what made them desirable in the first place. Now to answer you question more directly, I believe you should discuss your fears with him so he understands exactly where you want your relationship to go for both of you, otherwise you might grow resentful of him and he may have no clue as to why. She probably has not studied the real truths behind Mormonism and thinks her beliefs are the only way to become a God while living eternally with family in the life hereafter. Know her limits on substances. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult.
If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. I don't see anywhere in your post where there is a complete commitment. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb.
There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. December 18, Please tell me you're not in NC, dagny. We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that. How do you really feel about that. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. And what you're saying about having a great night and then an amazing few days after before he disappears and you feel like shit again I also hate that he doesn't text me until he is ready to make plans again, although I did ask him to text me more often and he has gotten a little better about it. He told me that there is nothing in the world that is more gratifying. These are also only the American statistics. Any advice from people who have gone through this would be awesome.
For the official Church websites, please visit LDS. You are atheist and that's not changing. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family.