The system has broken him down and rebuilt him as someone, I fear, I won't be able to respect or feel connected to. Thanks for the help. No one could compare to the man I married. You should also be willing to date other people. I decided not to answer his calls for some time to think. Take what you read with a grain of salt. I was going to be alone in the marrige working hard and planning for the two of us whiles my wife's emotions and energy was spent on other people. I wish you the best. Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction.
There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. I am clinging to it because we are back to the same old thing I must admit this last couple of years has been hard on me. Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now.
I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. These same principles have helped build strong, successful religious communities for thousands of years. His pager will become your most despised enemy.
I was thinking the same thing when I read this. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. Lots of really thorough replies. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. Your spouse can be involved with anything that does not require a scheduled time. I pray almost daily that his schedule will get better once we both started working, but I'm constantly concerned that I'll be doing most things alone too. December 17, I figured it might be fun to update you kind folks on what happened. He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop.